Dore ibimenyetso 10 bizakwereka ko umusore mukundana akwiyumvamo cyangwa se ko agukunda by’ukuri

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Dore ibimenyetso 10 bizakwereka ko umusore mukundana akwiyumvamo cyangwa se ko agukunda by’ukuri
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Dore ibyo bimenyetso ni ibi bikurikira:

1. Yita ku rukundo mufitanye kandi akaruha agaciro

Aha ngo uzasanga akunda kukubaza uko ubona urukundo mufitanye rumeze, uko urwiyumvamo ibitagenda ndetse n’uko byakosorwa. Uzasanga ntetse akunda no kukubaza  amakuru y’inshuti zawe, ay’umuryango wawe ndetse n’uko bimeze ku kazi kawe mu gihe ugafite ,uko amasomo agenda niba wiga ndetse nubwo atabikubwira cyangwa se ngo akubaze byinshi ariko ugasanga  ahora ashaka kumenya byinshi  kuri wowe. Ibyo ukunda, inshuti zawe ndetse  no kumenya birambuye ibijyanye n’umuryango wawe kandi usange ahora akubaza icyakorwa kugira ngo urukundo rwanyu rutere imbere.

2. Uzasanga asobanukiwe kandi azi neza  ibigushimisha

Ngo niba umusore agukunda by’ukuri uzasanga azi neza ikintu ashobora kugukorera ku buryo wishima, ugaseka ukiyumva nk’umuntu udasanzwe mu  bandi bakobwa bose  baziranye na we. Uzasanga akubwira ibyo amatwi yawe akeneye kumva ndetse no mu gihe ubabaye akube hafi  ntakujye kure , usange araguhamagara buri kanya ashaka kumenya uko umerewe kandi akubwire amagambo  wumva ko asubiza umutima impembero, mbese agusubiza mu bihe by’umunezero. Uzabona ko azi imyenda yambara ukayishimira bityo naza kubonana nawe abe ari yo yambara, azi ubwoko bw’ikinyobwa n’ubw’ibiryo ukunda, aho ukunda gusohokera, ibyo ukunda gukora, usange ahora ashakisha uburyo ibigushimisha ari byo wibonamo kugira ngo uhore unezerewe.

3. Uzabona ari umuntu ukunda gutekereza no gukora hirya no hino kugira ngo agushimishe 

Buri gihe uzasanga akunda guhora  ashakakisha , atekereza ku bintu  bitandukanye ashobora gukora kugira ngo ubuzima bwawe bwa buri munsi bukuryohere ndetse niba unezerewe, na we bimugireho ingaruka cyangwa se niba ubabaye ubone na we byamukozeho abure amahoro ubone ko ahangayikishijwe n’ibihe bitari byiza urimo ndetse anabibwire inshuti ze aho ushobora kubona bagenzi be haguhamagara bakubaza uko umerewe, akuzanire akantu utatekerezaga ndetse akakubaza n’uko ubyakiriye.

4. Aguhamagara ntacyo agamije cyangwa se nta kintu agendereye

Aha ngo uzasanga hari ubwo aguhamagaye wumve abuze icyo akubwira mbega nta kintu gifatika aguhamagariye, uretse kukubwira ko agukunda kandi ko agukumbuye. Ngo naguhamagara ntakubaze icyo uri gukora, uwo muri kumwe ibi rero ngo ahanini abiterwa n’uko iyo mutari kumwe aba agutekereza akumva ko hari ikibura muri we ko atuzuye kugira ngo yumve aguwe neza akaguhamagara wenda kugira ngo yumve ijwi ryawe. Ibi rero ngo nta kindi kiba kibimutera ni ukukwiyumvamo n’urukundo rw’ukuri aba agukunda kandi akumva ko ukenewe kugira ngo ubuzima bwe bube bwuzuye.

 5. Yifuza kumarana igihe kinini nawe/ igihe muri kumwe ntaba yifuza ko mwatandukana

Aha ngo uzasanga niba koko akwiyumvamo, igihe  cye cyose afite atari gukora yifuza ko mwaba muri kumwe, mbega igihe cyose akumva ko yakwihoranira nawe, akumva kandi yakubona hafi ye. Aha ngo igihe muri kumwe uzabona ko ashaka ko museka, muganira ku buzima bwanyu buri imbere, muvuga ku byabateza imbere aho kugira ngo yikunde cyangwa se akuzaneho iby’irari rye gusa. Usanga apanga gahunda ye neza ku buryo akubonera umwanya uhagije mukavugana.

6. Iyo urimo kumubwira ikintu aba aguhanze amaso/akwitayeho

Iki ngo ni kimwe mu bimenyetso byerekana ko agufitiye urukundo kandi ko wamukuruye. Iyo  akureba mu maso biba bisobanura ko nta kindi ari gutekereza ahubwo ko agukurikiye ashimishijwe cyane no kumva ikintu kiguturukamo bikavuga ko imitima yanyu iri kumwe.

7. Yifuza kukumenya birambuye

Niba koko akwiyumvamo kandi akagufata nk’umuntu udasanzwe uzasanga akunda kukubaza icyo warose nijoro, ibyo wifuza kugeraho mu buzima, ibyo uteganya, uko wabayeho mutaramenyana, akifuza ko umusangiza ubuzima wabayeho, ibyakubabaje, ibyo ukeneye kugira ngo ubuzima bugende neza ndetse nubwo waba ubona ko ntacyo yabikoraho bitewe n’ubushobozi  bwe, ibyo ukunda, ibyo wanga n’ibigushimisha. Iki ngo ni ikimenyetso gikomeye cyerekana ko umusore agukunda kandi ko akwiyumvamo.

8. Iyo muri kumwe aba ashaka kuguhobera cyane ndetse no kugukorakora

Aha ngo iyo yishimira kugukorakora no kuguhobera akagukomeza ubona ko ntabuhehesi burimo cyangwa se atagamije gutuma utwarwa kugira ngo abe yagukoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina ahubwo ko ari ibizongamubiri bimurimo, ngo rwose aba agukunda  akifuza ko nawe wakumva urukundo rumurimo mugasangira ibyishimo. Kandi ngo n’igihe muri kumwe mu nzira mugendana agakunda kugufata ukuboko cyangwa se mu kiganza igihe agiye kukubwira ikintu akakureba mu maso.

9. Mu gihe wagize ibyago agaragaza uruhare rwe kandi akakuba hafi

Niba wabuze umuvandimwe, umubyeyi cyangwa se n’ikindi kintu cyari kigufitiye akamaro, ngo ukabona umusore w’incuti yawe ashaka kuba nyambere mu kukwegera no kukuba hafi, cyangwa se niba wabuze nk’umwe mu muryango ugasanga ahageze mbere, agufashije kubimenyesha abandi, akohereje ubutumwa bwo kukwihanganisha, azanye n’inshuti ze kwifatanya nawe mu gihe cy’umubabaro, arakora hirya no hino kugira ngo ibintu bikorwe neza ndetse akomeze no kugushakira utuntu dutandukanye kugira ngo uve mu gihe cy’umubabaro wongere gusubira mu byishimo, rwose ngo ni ikimenyetso nyacyo cyerekana ko akwiyumvamo kandi ko ufite icyo uvuze mu buzima bwe. 

10. Aguha impano zishamaje

Aha ngo si ngombwa ko  impano zishamaje ziba zihenze kugira ngo ubone ko agukunda ahubwo ngo uzasanga aguha wenda n’izo yikoreye, yavanye mu bukorikori bwe, akarabo aciye ahantu ku nzira se, agafoto kanditseho utugambo tw’urukundo n’ibindi ariko bifite icyo bisobanuye mu rukundo.

Ngira ngo nk’uko mwabibonye rero hari ibimenyetso byinshi bishobora kukwereka ko wowe n’umusore mukundana hari urukundo nyarwo kandi ko akwiyumvamo. Jya ukora uko ushoboye ugenzure ko ibi bimenyetso bihari bityo bibe byakwereka uko uhagaze ndetse n’agaciro ufite mu buzima bw’umusore muri kumwe mu rukundo.

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